1) Wash + soak the wheat (helps it cook smoother)
Rinse cracked wheat in a sieve until the water runs clearer.
Soak in water for 30 minutes (if you can). Drain.
(No time? Rinse well and use it—just expect slightly longer cooking.)
2) Start cooking the meat (build the base)
In a large pot, add meat + 8 cups water + salt.
Add onion/cardamom/bay leaf (optional).
Bring to a boil, then reduce to a gentle simmer.
Skim any foam that rises to the top.
3) Add the wheat
Once the meat is tender, add the soaked/drained wheat.
Simmer on low, stirring occasionally so it doesn’t stick.
Cook until the wheat is very soft: